i need a divorce lawyer and have no money?

Monty Sieloff: it sounds like you are having panic and anxiety attacks. relax and be happy that your husband is coming home. unless he is mean to you than i can see why you feel sick

Codi Manchel: Call Legal Aid. you can find them in the phone book, they are a free legal service most states offer(In every state, as far as I know anyway) , up to and including lawyers pro bono.Also, look in the phone book and get the general number for the County/Metro and/or city court and ask to speak to the Domestic (family and domestic/family relations) Court Clerks office, they can tell you what free/low cost services exist, and what costs you might incur to file it yourself....Show more

Indira Wassell: Go see legal aid or go to your local court and find out how to file the divorce yourself. There's a small fee associated with filing but it's still cheaper than hiring an attorney.

Ricardo Rozelle: possibly many people have very strong feelings on this

Davida Gi! sriel: My husband and I have been married 20 years. We are both in our late 40s. I have always been the primary source of income in the relationship. We have two children, one in college and one in high school. My husband is a lawyer who has been for the past 5 years. He hates practicing law, and has been seeking other opportunities with no success. I am so stressed out over making ends meet, so by the time I come home from work after 8pm (I leave at 7:30am), I make dinner for my teenager, and talk to her because I love doing that, and I wish I could be home more for her. My husband does not understand my anger about how disorganized he is, leaving all his papers over the house including the living room, dining room, kitchen, ect. On weekends I do chores, go to the gym, and spend time with my daughter... I am truly exhausted. My husband has gone into a depressional 'funk' blaming me for his unhappiness, and clamming I dont love him. For the past several years he was drinkin! g a bottle of wine a night, which then escalated to burbon. He! was able to quit and be sober for the past year and a half, but still takes anti depressants every night, which i believe make him paranoid, which leads to abrupt comments, and antagonistic behavior. I do love him very much but, cannot handle him being out of work and 'crazy' any more. He is a hypochondriac, claming to have every problem unders the sun, being used an excuses not to work. He blames me for our lack of intimacy.... I am just exhausted and have a hard time wanting him to be back sleeping in our bedroom. (he has been sleeping on the couch in our family room, watching TV all night. He blames me for us living in an affluent subarb... but never served up an alternative. I don't want to leave him when he needs me the most, but he is very verbally abusive, and makes me feel like dirt. (He will argue that I give him no love, and make him feel worthless). Friends say I have coddled him all these years, and my parents feel I should move on while I have some youth left.! I once again do not want to leave him because he is genuinely a good person, I love him, and I am afraid to disapoint my children, and be alone. Please answer....Show more

Kenneth Blacker: Alot of people respond to the word sex too.

Moira Woodrow: You are under severe anxiety. You should see a doctor. You have heard these nightmare stories of what happens when husbands return from Iraq, and you're self-sabotaging yourself. Any stress can wear your body down until you're more prone to colds, flus, etc. The doctor can perscribe medication for your stress but I advise against it. These pills cause havock on your mental state and make you an addicted zombie. Take time for yourself, exercise, talk to friends, take walks. I wish you the best. This will all pass.

Neely Youngblut: absolutely! Stress has a HUGE impact not only on your mental health, but emotional and physical health as well.. I am very sorry that you're husband is deployed over there.. be proud! of him.. we are!!in the mean time.. Read up on ways to manage stress! , such as breathing patterns or yoga!

Tatiana Evanosky: This relationship won't go anywhere further except down. You are doing every little bit you can. You have jumped over hurdles most people wouldn't bother, you have put up with emotional abuse(because that's what it is)from a man who cares mainly about himself. If its been 5 years, and he hasn't been able to make any progress in getting himself in order, he's not going to unless something drastic happens. You could try a separation. Its not as permenant as divorce, it can always be taken back later, and it might get him off his butt to make the changes only he can make. At least it'll get him to learn to be self sufficient.You're not doing him any favors, though it may feel like you're being supportive. I know this from experience, as I stayed with a man much like this for 6 years. I took my son and left, him sniveling in his underware, unable to care for himself. It took awhile, but slowly, he sought hel! p, because he had to to survive. He got the mental assistance he needed, he began to work for himself. EVentually he paid child support, even. We never got back together, as I was over him when I left, but he's greatful I did what I did or he'd still be as a child, expecting others to take care of his life for him. We're friends now, and both so much better off. I feel you both may benefit from such an action, as well. Hard as it is to believe now... My son was so relieved as he didn't have to hear the fighting anymore, as well. Alot of good can come from this difficult change....Show more

Lupe Sancen: like she said i like the word sex better

Helen Zafar: I find it quite interesting to hear about cheating relationships

Edwina Fu: YOU CAN FILE FOR IT IN YOUR STATE, ON YOUR OWN U JUST HAVE TO GO AND GET A COPY OF A FILING FOR DIVORCE, JUST CHANGE THE NAMES AND TO AND THE OTHER INFORMATION THAT PERTAINS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.....IN THESE ! CASE IT BETTER IF THE TWO OF YOU HAVE ALREADY AGREE TO WHAT EVER IS ! TO BE ...DONE LIKE PROPERTY, THE KIDS, VISITATIONS, CHILD SUPPORT THINGS LIKE THAT.... I AM NOT SURE ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO AS FAR AS HIM BEING JAIL....I AM ALMOST SURE THERE IS SOME FORMS FOR THAT TOO....HOW MUCH LONGER IS HE GOING TO BE THERE??WHY DOESN'T WANT YOU TO GET THE DIVORCE ????ANYWAY THERE IS A CHARGE IF FILING THE PAPERS........MOST STATES CHARGE AROUND 50 - $ 80.00 .....THERE ARE LEGAL AIDS IN MOST STATES AND CITIES TOO YOU YOU WOULD ONLY HAVE TO PAY A FEW DOLLARS...SO GO FOR IT GOOD LUCK...Show more

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Cletus Makler: Need A Lawyer No Money

Lon Pennington: Because MANY people have been hurt from it... Doesn't that tell you something?

Jesse Pirieda: no money you still need a divorce no lawyer is gonna do that for free and nether is the state. if you dont have any assets together than it shouldnt cost much but you need money.

Manie Labat: That's abandonment, it's a slam dunk for a divorce. The other t! hing many states grant a divorce automatically when the spouse is a convicted felon in prison.

Roosevelt Pendill: I believe that almost every state has legal services that you can sign up for. Call your local shelter, look in your local phone book , even most court houseshave paperwork that tells you who you may contact to get a lawyer since you can not afford one. Also you may look on line for your states on-line library and that should have numbersyou can contact someone so that you may do the paperwork yourself. Good luck...Show more

Adan Alipio: Contact the nearest Legal Aid Society near you (and that could be 40-50 miles away or more, for all I know). ANOTHER very helpful method is to go to the library and confide in the librarian that you are looking for a "how to" book on obtaining a divorce through legal chanels without spending much money for an attorney. -OR, goggle online: no cost do it yourself divorce - and see where it leads you on the intern! et.Sincerely,Grace...Show more

Coleman Deliberato: contact www.wet! hepeople..com very low rate divorce filing fee.maybe you can do with payments.

Jesse Japak: We are all hopelessly bored and find cheating a juicy subject. Most people have experienced unfaithfulness in one form or another. What can I say. You know how to press the right buttons.Cheats Ahoy.

Pasquale Pollet: Stress will definitely weaken your immune system. If you're having stomach issues you may want to get with a reputable naturpath. He/she will probably suggest you start taking probiotics and changing you diet. I had major abdominal surgery because i didn't know then what I know now. What i know is to stay away from traditional medicine for chronic conditions.

Stan Conley: Look in the phone book under Legal Aid or go online and type in the name of your county, state and the words legal aid. There is help available.

Karie Mavle: For the past few months i've been getting sick every month with colds. About a month ago i had a very server stomache vir! us inwhich i had to go to the hopital and later collapse. My huband is deployed in iraq now for a year, and will be returning in january. I'm under alot of stress ofcourse with my husband being in iraq and dealing with our two kids on my my own, It seems like the closer it gets to his homecoming the more stress i am and i'm gettting sick alot more. On a few occasions within the last six months i've woken up with hand pains and when i look at the palm of my hand their are fingernail marks where i've dug my nails into my skin and i'm in pain for the reat of the day. so my questions are how can i stop inflicting pain onto myself while asleep? and also is all the stress i'm under and my worring about my husband causing me to get sick eaiser?...Show more

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Blythe Noreiga: Entirely too many people can relate to this issue, and probably feel they can offer better advice based on their own experiences.

Jude Kennelly: I get roughly 3 times the responses than any other kind of question? Seems like a whole lot of cheating goin' on!!